Why I Think You Should Consider Having a First Look

You might have come across the term "First Look" in the context of weddings. It's a popular trend, and you may be wondering what it entails and whether it's something you should incorporate into your big day.

A First Look is a private moment where the bride and groom see each other before the ceremony begins. This typically takes place after both are fully dressed and ready. It's a special, intimate moment, just the two of you, where you can share your thoughts, exchange a few words, or even read a letter to one another.

Now that you know what a First Look is, let's dive into why many couples choose to include it in their wedding day.

1. A Rare Private Moment
Your wedding day will be filled with excitement, laughter, and a whirlwind of activities. However, it can pass by in a blur. The First Look provides a unique opportunity for a private, heartfelt moment with your partner before the festivities truly begin. It's a time to connect without the eyes of your guests on you, allowing for genuine, unfiltered emotions.

I've seen many grooms shed a few happy tears during this moment. It’s a chance to compliment each other, share a smile, or even twirl in your wedding dress—making it a moment that’s entirely yours.

2. Relieving the Pre-Ceremony Jitters
Seeing your partner before the ceremony can be incredibly calming. Instead of waiting until you walk down the aisle with hundreds of eyes on you, a First Look allows you to share that initial emotional moment in private. This can ease nerves and help you both feel more relaxed as you head into the ceremony, without the pressure of everyone watching your every move.

3. Extra Photo Opportunities
One of the practical benefits of a First Look is the additional time it gives your photographer to capture those special moments. As a photographer, I appreciate when couples opt for a First Look because it allows for more portraits of the couple, as well as wedding party and family photos, before the ceremony begins. This means you'll have more time to enjoy cocktail hour with your guests and more candid photos of them as well.

Bonus Tip:
If possible, plan for at least two hours between your First Look and the start of your ceremony. This extra time can be invaluable for getting all the photos you want without feeling rushed. Trust me, it’s worth it!